Eros is more than sexuality. It super-charges your life with increased aliveness, pleasure, and access to expanded states of consciousness everyday.
You want to bring more aliveness to your intimate relationships.
You want to learn how to access ecstatic states of consciousness through sexuality, by yourself and with your lover(s).
You want to cultivate the skills to use your relationships and sexuality for accelerated growth and healing.
You want to explore how to customize your relationship, learning how to help each other get what we want with more pleasure and ease.
You want to learn responsive awareness instead of rigid rules and cancel culture hypervigilence.
You are ready to end the battle of the sexes and help each get what we deeply desire.
You want to expand your capacity for aliveness and creativity in eros-infused spaces.
You want to openly explore compelling and sometimes controversial subjects around eros, sexuality, gender, and culture.
Eros isn’t optional for a fully expressed life. We just need to manage it with skill.
Sexuality has caused much suffering in our current paradigm. It makes sense that many cultures and spiritual communities have emphasized shutting down eros in service of trying to minimize the harm that comes from weilding it as power, control, and personal gratification without connection.
But that doesn’t get to the core of the problem.
Eros is lifeforce. It is aliveness. When we allow ourselves to feel the fullness of life moving through us, we feel more desire, we feel more alive….more ourselves. And something else happens: it can become harder to feel others.
From the new paradigm, we learn how to do both eros and deep connection. Full expression and full union. We learn how to use it to enhance our relationships and collective experience. There is no either / or. We use it as a vehicle of accelerate growth and way to infuse our spaces with aliveness and creativity.
Doing the ecstatic and erotic at the same time amplifies both.
In our modern world, the ecstatic and the erotic (eros) are often seen as opposites. In reality, they are complementary, each dependent upon and amplifying the other. In fact, to the extent that you block access to one, you block it to the other as well. You become fully awake and alive at the intersection of them.
What does eros-infused relationships,
sexuality, and lives mean?
This training community is built on five distinctions that expand what’s possible:
1. We have to give each other what we desire.
When we shift from trying to get our partner to give us what we want to helping each other get what we deeply desire, we break open new aliveness and intimacy.
2. Relationships are growth accelerators.
We can do lots of personal growth. But when we are in relationship, we find a whole new layer of growth that is needed. When we embrace relationships as a way to have more pleasure while we are learning and healing, our relationships hold a powerful purpose.
3. The relationship is a third thing.
It’s common to think of relationships as merging into a “we.” Not only does this cause problems, it sets you up for losing yourself and restlessness. Instead, you, your partner, and your relationship are 3 distinct elements that need to be tended to.
4. Sexuality is a shortcut to ecstatic states of consciousness.
Eros amplifies everything. When we understand how it works, we can use this energy to help us access ecstatic states and new states of consciousness. We can then bring these states into our daily lives with the skills we have learned.
5. Eros is not limited to the bedroom.
Eros is aliveness, lifeforce, and creative fuel. It opens up our ability to be fully embodied and create.
We need spaces to be able to learn skills and openly explore eros topics without fear of being cancelled.
Sample Training Topics:
- How to help each other get what you most deeply desire in your relationships.
- How to cultivate deep connection without loosing yourself in relationship.
- Accessing ecstatic states through sexuality.
- Experiencing mind-blowing sex.
- Healing trauma through relationships and sexuality.
- How to constantly fall in love with your partner.
- How to not be creepy while flirting.
- Using eros-infused spaces for creativity.
- Reframing consent as responsive awareness.
- Ending repeating fights, and living in new territory.
- Cultivating and channeling sexual energy.
- Ethical non-monogamy.
- Managing lifeforce and sexual energy.
- Cultivating desire and deepening pleasure.
- Exploring taboos, morality, and ethics.
Expand your skills and states through your intimate relationships, sexuality, and eros-infused spaces.
Types of calls:
Skills Practice Calls
Using The Alive Edges Approach, cultivate skills and states of consciousness that expand your relationships and sexual experiences.
Intensive Workshops
Allowing for a more spacious time frame and deeper dive, we offer half day and full day intensives several times a year.
Facilitated Singles Events
Feel supported and practice applying the skills with others open to love and relationships.
Facilitated Discussions
Share your thoughts in open discussions exploring often taboo but necessary topics including eros in society and the workplace.
Special Guests
Inviting compelling guests to share their perspectives and engage in discussions.
3+ Calls a Month
Starting June 1st!
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